Why This Should Be Your Relationship Goals?

In this time and age where a lot of young couple jumped into a bigger chapter of their life without a solid plan which I am not condemning for.

It’s so easy for them to give up their singlehood; some kind of privileges, and freedom. Most probably because at their early age, they started supporting for themselves and their family by means of working either part-time or full-time and accepted their fate as being the breadwinner in the household.

It’s kinda sad and depressing that more younger people are doing all the labor when parents should be the first one doing that for their children.

I see that they are in pain.

Their frustrations and their longing for a “Happy Family”.

I felt that!

It’s their life, after all.

I honestly, do not look down on them, but I get to learn from them.

The struggle of no permanent house, dealing with another family, lack of financial support, no complete rest, sleep, and many more.

I visualize all their struggles and I end up not doing the same thing.

‘Cause for me,

the real and honest

“Relationship Goals”

is not the people who cohabitates or what we oftenly see over the internet.

Kising. Hugging. Talking.

Getting more physical, and so on and so forth.

But it is the one who have chosen a stress-free life. – The Private Life πŸ•Š

It is because their relationship with one another doesn’t need an approval but only by the church and the Lord. πŸ™

Choosing a peaceful life that is God-centered.

People honestly doesn’t need to know everything about you and your relationship with the one you love.

‘Cause the truth is,

We protect the people we truly love the most. We don’t let anyone to come and ruin our beautiful relationship with them.

‘Cause after all, this is ours and not them.

They are so much in love being in a “low profile” relationship. They know what personal space is all about.

As as result of that, they proudly enjoyed each other’s company without the need to post, to share, or to give a feedback from others as well.

Real relationship isn’t really a picture-perfect couple, but the one who sees reality.

The one who thinks seriously about the future. The one who plans ahead of time and who doesn’t take anything for granted.

The couple who both work hard for a better future.

Who both respect each other’s time and understands that both of them cannot be together at this moment

because of…

family obligations, personal dreams, differences, and the like.

I know, my views about relationships may be different from you.

But at the end of the day,

what we’ve always wanted and dreamt about is…

To love and be loved back!

Am I correct?

Kindly share with us what for you is a kind of relationship goals you want the young youth to know and learn about. πŸ’›

Comment below!


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Author: Zandra L.

A writer and a manager by accident.

8 thoughts on “Why This Should Be Your Relationship Goals?”

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  4. Oh my gosh! 😲 I am really sorry for the very late reply. I just started my blog a week ago and I still didn’t know how this app works completely yet. I even thought that my work may not be good enough to atleast brigthen up someone’s day.Β  It is just so happen that today I am just exploring other features of this app, only to find out that I got a lot of feeback from the readers.
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  5. I am really sorry for the very late reply. I just started my blog a week ago and I still didn’t know how this app works completely yet. I even thought that my work may not be good enough to atleast brigthen up someone’s day.Β  It is just so happen that today I am just exploring other features of this app, only to find out that I got a lot of feeback from the readers.

    Sadly, instead of receiving it in the comment section, it went immediately in Spam. So the app wasn’t able to notify me that I have already been receiving countless of messages here and there.

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  6. Quite some real goals here. Seems we both have something in common – long distance relationship has its own advantages too, as long as the connection between the two individuals remain strong and unrestrained in the long run. As time gives in, you get to know so much about yourselves; with that and the affection for each other already in place, you are better off prepared for each other in whatever comes your way next.

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    1. Exactly! πŸ˜‰ Thanks for taking some time to read my lengthy blog post. ☺ It’s an honor to have some readers like you who go through the entire post. πŸ‘Œ

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