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I cannot think of anything else, but to earn more cash, especially now that I am aging.

I kept on working and working in fear that I might end up being broke in the future.

I habitually save a lot of money so that, one day I can now start living on my own.

I badly want to support for myself not only to prove something to the public.

But this is a kind of fulfillment that I myself can do it alone.

That is why, I hate being too dependent on people.

Not only that I am becoming to attached with them, but I am not also helping myself to grow on my own.

Mind you, saving someone’s problem may be a good idea.

But if you will look more closely, are you really solving his problem? Or you’re just saving one’s life for a good record or out of sympathy?

Helping isn’t a bad thing.

But if done habitually, to the point of doing all the work, then you are in a big trouble.

Not only that you are just adding a problem to the root of the problem, but you are also teaching the person to keep relying on you.

Imagine if you’re not around, don’t you think that it is more pitiful to see him or them that they cannot even stand alone?

That they don’t have a backbone to work alone.

Listen, I know you only want to help. But can you do it in a right process where in, both of you will grow on your own.

Let us bare in mind that every individual has a capability, so please let them be.

If they only make fun around and waste time, then just sit still and do nothing.

Let the person or the set of people face the consequences of their actions.

Let them experience how harsh reality is.

And I’ll tell you, once they had gone through a lot of adversity in life…

One day, they will promise themselves not to take things lightly.

One day, they will grow on their own.

And once they have succeeded in life, they will swear not to go back to their previous nightmare.

So, what are your thoughts toward adversity?

Is adversity a real bad thing or you just don’t want to change?

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Author: Zandra L.

A writer and a manager by accident.