Valentine’s Day Blues

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Here we go again and again. It’s so hard to pretend that it’s fine or it’s going to be fine.

Valentine’s Day supposed to be a celebration of love, yet so many people fell into idea that it was made for couples alone. It felt as if they are the only ones who are entitled to celebrate and to feel great, while others don’t have one or still not in a state of legal relationship. What’s more depressing is that, we single people tend to lock ourselves at home for we don’t like the idea of being left out or worst, being pitied and bullied on.

For someone like me who grew up being grounded, it’s so hard for me to adjust and to make friends to get along with others. My parents only have the two of us and they cannot afford to lose us. That is why, they are being so protective and sometimes, being paranoid✌ to the point of feeling that you cannot even breathe.

Well, our parents did everything just for us to remain happy and fulfilled. But though I always feel loved and secured, out of the blue, my heart will suddenly feel empty and the feeling of being lost comes next to it. But I have realized that I am feeling this way all because I was raised differently by our parents. I have just thought that, there is so much in life that I hardly relate to, which leads me to grew up being firm and extremely independent. In addition to that, I used to believe that my journey needs to be done alone and that’s fine with me as long as my family will be alive ’til 100 years old or beyond that age; or when I am ready to let them go.

Anyways, whenever I cry secretly, I die ’cause most people never know about it. I decide not to reveal my true emotions for I am sure that they will not understand me, not unless they were raised just the same as mine. You see, we may appear to be well-provided, but along the way, we were always constrained to do something.

I know, I know, that’s very saddening. Right? But though my heart is aching and feel like breaking into pieces, I still try to listen to them whenever possible and understand them that they are just doing it out of pure concern and love for us. As a result of that, I cannot imagine a life without my family.

For obvious reason, in my 25 years of existence, my life has been all about them and losing even one of them makes me want to die first before them.

So, this Valentine’s Day, all I’m asking and praying for is a complete family, ’cause (again) that’s all I’ve got.

How about you? What’s your story? Please comment below.

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Dear Whiner, this is for you!

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I am writing this down to know if you are aware of yourself.

Was it a bit too much to ask for your help or are you gonna be like that who never stops complaining?

Was it really hard for you to do other little stuff?

Every time I only ask a small favor, what I often get is a complain when in fact, I did everything I could just so I won’t be hearing any complain from you.

Whenever I confront you about your sort of laziness and constant complain, you always brushed off my confrontation for thinking that you’re always right and your way of reasoning is always valid.

Just so you know, I had been doing everything in hopes that your mouth will stop babbling. But at the end of the day, once a whiner, always and will be a whiner.

Well, good luck on that. I may be hot-tempered at times, but never did I let myself become a headache to people for being too complaining.

Yes, oftentimes, I am very emotional when it comes to my loved ones for they are my achilles’ heel. But let me point out that I only ask a favor for only a few things and never demand you for everything.

I am hoping that one day, you’ll soon wake up and realize that…

At some point in life, I was right.

Thank you for reading my lengthy post, RT Peeps! Sorry for expressing my anger here. It just feel toxic to keep it to yourself and act like as if you are numb.

How about you, Fellas? Will you remain silent whenever you encounter someone who habitually complain? How do you approach him/her? Is it directly or you drop signs that what he /she is doing was completely wrong.

Please leave a comment and let’s pray together that this kind of behavior will soon end. πŸ™


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Human Giver Syndrome

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I guess, I belong to this kind of group, where people still continue to be a slave to everyone. Even if it is already hurting, you’ll do it in the hopes that people will do the same for you.

Heck, that is not true!

Not everything in this world can be reciprocated.

It’s my day off today, but it totally ruined everything! What a terrible day!

By the way,

I learned this term from Emily & Amelia Nagoski’s book “Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle.”

Thanks to them, I was able to identify the cause of my stress.


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When you do all the work, yet…

People still complain. I am totally pissed off today.

How about you? How are things going?

People always give me a crap like as if I am responsible for everything.

How totally annoying!

Not Everything You Asked Can Be Freely Given To You

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I hate to say this,

But…

Most people are so used to asking a lot from others.

And sometimes, they are some kind of people who wanted everything to be free.

Are they insane or what?

They feel as if everything needs to be given freely just because

One,

They are your family or relatives.

Two,

They are acquainted to you.

Three,

Probably the worst of all,

You are well off enough than them.

So, why choose to be frugal over them when you have so much?

Am I correct?

Not All Are Great Writers

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I was reading a new kind of book again, which tackles stress cycle.

But along the way,

I’ved realized that the author didn’t write professionally.

The author just have the threshold to speak up to the world for he mastered a particular topic.

Though, I am quite disappointed with the way he writes…

I still recognize the depth of his book.

Maybe, the author just need to take some writing class to make his book even better.

Mind you,

The substance is there already.

It just needs to be enhanced to deliver his point rightly.

Just to be fair,

I never said or considered myself as a great writer.

I am just saying that my kind of writing is quite better than the author…

For I proofread every post that I share with you all.

As much as possible, I avoid redundancy.

Instead of saying the same thing over and over again…

I try to be more direct, so I could be easily understood by people.

If you’re into substance, well that’s a good news!

For you’ll be learning a lot from the author.

But, if you’re also into excellence of writing…

Then, I’m afraid to tell you that the author is lacking on that area.

I guess, that’s all I could say for now.

I just hope that this author will take writing more seriously.

How about you? Can you recall some authors that weren’t really a great writer?

Please comment below.

Gracias!


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I Can Carry Heavy Objects, But I Cannot Grip! Can You Relate?

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When I was a little girl, I am proud to say that I can carry heavy objects.

But not until I was challenged by a bottled water or any objects that needs a strong grip for it to open.

I felt bad each time I struggle in opening an object, most especially if the sealed is too tight!

Do you feel me?

Please comment below!


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The Heart, Not the Eye.

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While,

It is such a privilege to live in a modern world we have today…

I beg to differ.

Tactless

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Tactless person really got on my nerves!

I pity those people who lack some sort of sensitivity towards the feelings of others.

I just felt bad, knowing that she has achieved such a high position.

Yet, doesn’t convince me at all.

The way she dress herself.

The way she approach me and other people…

Totally unprofessional!

It is really evident that manners are hard to learn and earn, especially for those who lack some E.Q or Emotional Quotient.

I pity her so much for having a poor character.

How I wish,

Whatever position you may acquire in the future will reflect the way you treat people.

How about you?

Have you met someone who is tactless and so unprofessional?

Comment below!


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The Truth Behind Isolation

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Isolating yourself from people isn’t a bad thing at all, for it helps you to cope up with reality.

I have this habit that for at least one or two days, I get to isolate myself from people.

It’s not that I don’t like people.

It is just that, there are some moments where I found myself totally exhausted.

To the point that at any moment, I might collapse or my level of patience would hit the ground.

Also take note that,

Anyone can be a worst person if he/she cannot take some rest.

‘Cause I believe, all of us have some moments were all we ever wanted was to be alone.

So tired.

So exhausted.

So noisy & crowded.

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