Expectant Mom

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Who doesn’t want a baby? Everyone loves babies!

The real question is, can you now cater all their needs?

Reaching at a certain age doesn’t mean you have to do it now, otherwise you’re gonna regret after.

Ladies, I know most of us were pressured about the society we live in. But if we cannot do the changing to our society, then why should we?

Why are we letting the society control and dictate over our needs and desires? I know, babies are the best thing God ever created for expectant mothers out there. However, just because somebody in your clan or in your neighborhood gets married and have children, you also need to do the same thing.

Darling, we are all different! Some are not just meant to carry babies in their womb. And just because they are not the one who makes babies doesn’t mean they cannot be called mothers.

The word “Mother” isn’t only for the one who gets pregnant and bring babies in the family.

In a bigger picture, a mother is whom who gives provision to your daily needs. It could be a sister who acts as the breadwinner in the family. It could also be someone who adopts you. Whatever that is, the word “mother” is not limited by definition alone, but by how much of what she could do to make the world a better place to live.

That’s the real essence of a mother – always willing to do sacrifice all for her children.


I, myself honestly can now picture of what a good mother is. However, at this very moment, though picturing myself as an expectant mother would be a nice thing, it would be best if I end up well-prepared in terms of emotional, spiritual and most of all, financial support.

It is because…

being a mother

isn’t a one-time obligation,

but a lifetime.

So if you also feel that you are not ready enough by all means, I suggest that you give it some time until the time becomes right for you! 🌹


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Better adopt a Teddy Bear over a Real Bear

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Whatever kind of pet you are adopting, I salute you!

However, if you are like me who at the moment cannot finance all the needs of live pet/s, might as well choose praticality over pride.

Since birth, I always love the idea of taking care of live pets. I even dreamt about having a bunch of dogs everywhere in the house. However, most of us in the family were allergic and sensitive. Though there are some live pets who are hypoallergenic, the idea of bringing a live pet in the house isn’t a joke. You have to at least hire someone to feed them, and to check after them ’cause most of us are away for work and other obligations.

So there, at this very moment I cannot adopt live pets ’cause I cannot cater all their needs yet.

Perhaps soon, but not too soon!


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An Avid Fan of Books

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I’ll tell you a story first.

When I was young, I don’t have any peers at school and I try to open up this struggle with my Mom.

The good thing about her is that, she is full of positivity and wisdom in life.

I remember, she told me that…

“What’s the point of making friends if later on, they will just stab you behind your back?”

Don’t get me wrong.

My Mom is not discouraging me to be a friend to anyone, she’s just telling me the reality that not everything we want, we could get and without any danger.

You see, there’s a lot of crimes anywhere you go, my Mom is just protecting me from any possible danger.

Fast forward, I started loving books not only that it gives me a lot of information that can be of a great help in the future, but I kinda feel that whenever I read books, I have some kind of imaginary friend who’s willing to help me grow as a person and to live a life worthwhile.

For the second time around, don’t get me wrong.

I have real friends. Just a small circle of friends and I honestly don’t consider them as peers. Friends feel more exclusive to me. 💗

Enough of chatting!

Let’s begin what are the things that made me an avid fan of books!

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These are just so random. I hope you don’t mind.

Makes you connect with other people around the globe.

Know their culture and practices.

Widen your horizon.

Keeps your mind occupied.

Feed your mind with fresh and lasting learning you can never find over the internet.

Always renew and deepen your mindset.

Give you a sense of fulfilment.

Know their struggle and help you to appreciate your life more.

Lasty,

Gives you a sense of purpose to share your learning to others.

How about you?

What are the things that led you to like reading books more?

Feel free to leave a comment.


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Breadth of Knowledge & Experience

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I honestly wouldn’t do blogging without have that two.

It took me years before I was able to go out of my comfort zone.

Thanks to them,

This made me stronger, bolder and even more wiser, which led me to pursue blogging…

For the reasons that I read tons of book already and been to a lot of places.

Why Everyone Needs To Treat With Love, Kindness and Understanding?

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Be it Male, Female or LQBTQ+,

I guess,

This is one of the most talk about topics worldwide.

Though,

LGBTQ+ is getting a lot more attention every single day,

It isn’t fully accepted by our society yet.

I know for a fact that everything gets even more complicated and confusing,

But let us not forget to accept and appreciate our differences.

After all,

We are just equal in the image and likeness of the Lord.

Instead of pointing out our differences and calling it awful,

Why not just support and appreciate one another?

Let me quote to you one of biblical verses that has something to do with our topic for today.

30 “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’[a] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[b] There is no commandment greater than these.” 

Mark 12:30-31 (NIV)

All of us has a unique purpose in life and we cannot expect them to behave, react or even think the way we do.

Others are no different from us ’cause everyone gets hungry,

We breathe the same air, we live in one planet, and God would be happier if we will walk through life as one.

No discrimation but only love and respect for one another.

I hope that through this sharing, we will be able to see diversity in a different light.

More accepting and more humane.


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Momentum

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” Just write anything

One thing I vividly recall about my schoolteacher in Journalism class way back in highschool.

We were ask to write an essay whatever that comes to mind.

At first, I thought he was insane but as I get older, I came to realize that what he meant by that is some sort of “momentum” like once your brain started working,

Everything just pops out to mind without realizing that you started to have a mental diarrhea.

A term used for most writers when they get plenty of ideas out of brainstorming.

I honestly thought that everything was such a waste of time and energy to start a topic without any idea.

But at the end of the day…

I have come to realize that great ideas usually come from uncertainty that when we free our mind to possibilities, that’s when we naturally write the most!

Here’s to an unexpected journey of mine as a blogger.

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Crocodile Tears

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Have you ever met someone who became so complacent about lying?

Well, we all do.

Today, I would like to share some of the red flags I myself experienced firsthand.

Though this is not a 100% guarantee that you will be able to catch the person if he in the first place already mastered the art of lying.

Meaning to say, he already got accustomed in making lies perhaps due to peer pressure, family expectations, and or high standards/ requirements either from school or work.

But the buttom line is, whether there’s a valid reason behind it or not, lying is never a good idea and shouldn’t be tolerated.

So without further ado, here are some techniques you can do about it:

  • Make an eye to eye contact

Do you know that according to psychology, the person who is not telling the truth cannot maintain an eye to eye contact?

You may also have observed that his body is shaking or his eyes are somewhere else because of thinking of other ways to reason out.

  • Know if he always acts like a victim

Be alert especially at times when a person acts in such a way that made you feel that you are the one attacking him without any basis or solid proof.

For some occasion, he may also do the “fake tears” thing in order to make you feel even worse!

Like you are the person who is a war freak who doesn’t even know how to discuss things in a nice and friendly manner.

Sounds ridiculous, right?

  • Does he make a lot of excuses?

Been there, done that!

And I know how it feels whenever someone is trying to cover up his made up lies.

In fact, I had known one who lied on me several times.

Though I cannot put everything here in details, but let me share with you how I get even more paranoid and suspicious about the way he lies.

The first thing I could vividly remember is that, he cannot get a job because of high requirements in working abroad.

Second, his family needs him more in the house so he gave up his dreams; also to give way for his brother to take his place for the meantime.

Third, he became fed up of trying because of so much failures and disappointments that he faced along the way.

He then blame me for being so concerned about him to the point of calling me such a nagger; giving him a lot of unsolicited advice and so and so forth.

Being in that kind of relationship is toxic and depressing.

But also keep in mind that this scenario does not only happen in relationship ’cause it could also happen even in family and friends who were driven by pride, jealousy, envy and the like, so you have to be more cautious of giving your trust away.

After all, not everyone can admit to themselves that they are at fault despite the fact of being caught.

I hope I was able to give the reader a clue or at least be of a great help to you to somehow ease your pain and heartache you might be struggling with, ’cause life is still beautiful no matter what.

Here are just some of the things I discovered along the way.

I know, there’s more of this to discuss, so feel free to share your ideas, and experiences with me and kindly leave a comment below.

Gracias!

PS: I’ve seen a nice video about crocodile tears, you might want to watch it.

Enjoy!


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Public Display of Affection

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While it is pretty normal to show affection to your loved ones, there are certain limitations you need to consider.

First, know your place.

Regardless of the fact that you live or used to live in a liberated country, keep in mind that not all people around you are comfortable enough by it.

Second, always try to set a good example to everyone ’cause what other sees in you might encourage them to do the same thing.

Let’s not forget that we are great influencers through our words and actions, so let’s try to be more vigilant from now on.

Third, better safe than sorry.

Whether you mind it or not, social media can be used against you.

They could even threaten your life or career.

So, I suggest that you wouldn’t risk everything just for one thing. – PDA


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You Get What You Pay For

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In this time and age, people are becoming more comfortable shopping online.

Not only because it is convenient, but also because it is affordable if you are to compare it from the existing shopping malls out there.

Unfortunately, people somehow forgot to be logical anymore.

Even though they knew from the very beginning why such item dropped its price suspiciously, they still end up buying it and later on, kept complaining why the purchased item did not at least meet their expectations.