Life is a Journey. Not a Marathon.

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When I started blogging, I thought it was easier to earn cash for you could do it without spending much time.

But I have come to realize that for you to monetize your blog, you have to build a community. You have to earn their trust first. You have to crawl as hard as possible and not to walk fast. ‘Cause again, life is a journey…a continuous progess to make. And not a marathon that just because you have something to say, you can post it right away.

Blogging takes time, takes effort for it to grow. So, if you are in a situation where in, you really don’t know what’s going on in your life, might as well take a break.

I guess, this is one of the short blog posts that I will be sharing with you all. But I hope you get something from it.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post. God bless!


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Human Giver Syndrome

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I guess, I belong to this kind of group, where people still continue to be a slave to everyone. Even if it is already hurting, you’ll do it in the hopes that people will do the same for you.

Heck, that is not true!

Not everything in this world can be reciprocated.

It’s my day off today, but it totally ruined everything! What a terrible day!

By the way,

I learned this term from Emily & Amelia Nagoski’s book “Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle.”

Thanks to them, I was able to identify the cause of my stress.


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When you do all the work, yet…

People still complain. I am totally pissed off today.

How about you? How are things going?

People always give me a crap like as if I am responsible for everything.

How totally annoying!

Not Everything You Asked Can Be Freely Given To You

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I hate to say this,

But…

Most people are so used to asking a lot from others.

And sometimes, they are some kind of people who wanted everything to be free.

Are they insane or what?

They feel as if everything needs to be given freely just because

One,

They are your family or relatives.

Two,

They are acquainted to you.

Three,

Probably the worst of all,

You are well off enough than them.

So, why choose to be frugal over them when you have so much?

Am I correct?

Why Even Royalties Experience to Pity Themselves?

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Most people believed that money is the answer to everything.

If it truly does…

Then why even royalties or the rich ones on earth get to pity themselves?

It just shows that no matter how luxurious your life is…

You still get to experience frustrations in life not because you are not contented with the kind of life you have, but rather because we are all human beings.

Regardless of your life’s status, you will still get to experience this and that’s pretty normal. As clichΓ© as it may sound, not everything you could get.

Especially the intangible ones.

Namely,

Friendship, love, trust, and even passion.

Why Friendship?

Because we are wired to speak and to communicate. Failing to have someone to talk to leads you to question your life.

Why Love?

Because without it, there’s no reason to continue living.

The truth is…

No one can live on earth without anyone by their side.

Imagine you are just a baby and there was no one around.

No food.

No water.

Not even a shelter.

You think you could survive?

Why Trust?

I hate to say this, but all of us have experienced some kind of trust issues wherever we go.

And having no one to trust feels like you are invisible; that you don’t exist at all!

Lastly,

Why Passion?

Because I believe, we all have a purpose in life. God placed us on earth to find meaning in our lives.

And a life without a passion is like waiting for yourself to die without even knowing what you truly wanted in life.

See?

Not everything is about money.

It is about our relationship with God; with people whom we can trust and share our firsts moment.

And lastly, about how we see and treat ourselves.

How about you?

What intangible things that made you to pity yourself?

These are just some of the things that I believe is hard to find as well as to earn.

Please comment below and tell me what you think about my topic for today.

Gracias!


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Not All Are Great Writers

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I was reading a new kind of book again, which tackles stress cycle.

But along the way,

I’ved realized that the author didn’t write professionally.

The author just have the threshold to speak up to the world for he mastered a particular topic.

Though, I am quite disappointed with the way he writes…

I still recognize the depth of his book.

Maybe, the author just need to take some writing class to make his book even better.

Mind you,

The substance is there already.

It just needs to be enhanced to deliver his point rightly.

Just to be fair,

I never said or considered myself as a great writer.

I am just saying that my kind of writing is quite better than the author…

For I proofread every post that I share with you all.

As much as possible, I avoid redundancy.

Instead of saying the same thing over and over again…

I try to be more direct, so I could be easily understood by people.

If you’re into substance, well that’s a good news!

For you’ll be learning a lot from the author.

But, if you’re also into excellence of writing…

Then, I’m afraid to tell you that the author is lacking on that area.

I guess, that’s all I could say for now.

I just hope that this author will take writing more seriously.

How about you? Can you recall some authors that weren’t really a great writer?

Please comment below.

Gracias!


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Hello, Fellas! Why Don’t You Groom & Groove?

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Let’s break some serious discussions here on my blog and make it more enjoyable.

Groom is a term I use for pampering yourself.

I don’t care if it is about getting yourself a haircut,

Getting your nails done.

Or

Even changing the way you dress.

We all need that.

It’s not about being high maintenance.

But, it is also important that we take care of ourselves.

‘Cause if we cannot do it…

Then,

How can we expect others to love and have some respect to us?

The next one is,

Get yourself into the groove.

I don’t care if it is about modern or traditional dance.

Keep your body movin’!

I just want you to groove.

You can dance or swing yourself into the air.

You can jump, run and listen to your fave song playlist.

I just want you to know that maybe you are becoming hard on yourself.

Loosen up a bit and you’ll feel lighter and happier.

Here’s the funny truth!

When I was in college,

I badly want to try pole workout with a little bit of dancing, ’cause I am not really a good dancer.

I just want to try some new stuff.

I also want to change the mindset of people that pole workout or pole dancing isn’t meant for prostitution or sexual pleasure alone.

But it can strengthen your core as well!

As you climb as high as you can,

You’ll feel a sense of…

Freedom

That you don’t need any validation from others.

You can always choose to be happy and let the world know that you can be anything.

And as long as you have a complete respect to yourself and to others…

There is no reason for you to stop and get the kind of happiness you truly deserve.

Am I correct?

Please comment below and share it with us,

What are the things you usually do to pamper yourself?

And

What makes your body get into the groove?

It could simply be…

You won an award.

You want to destress.

Or

You just badly want to kill time.

Whatever that is,

Sharing is such a nice thing.

So, don’t be shy! ☺

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