Late Night Talks

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So far, the best part of the day.

Why is it so special?

Because a lot of people is already at home.

There’s a lot of…

Chatting. Singing. Dancing. Drinking.

And

Many more.

Evening signifies us that it’s time to rest and so, you must enjoy the remaining time of the night. 🌠

This also reminds us to reflect and appreciate the essence of evening.

Without evening, I guess there would be no concept of rest.

We might work for the entire day.

No complete rest!

But,

God did this to create a balance in our lives.

With evening

There’s…

End of duty.

Less cars going in and out.

No need to exert a little effort in grooming yourself ’cause you’ll only be sleeping.

This is also where a real and honest talk happens. πŸ‘₯πŸ’¬

Because our minds are no longer occupied with everything.

It is the part of the day where there’s less distractions and obligations.

Night makes you emotional, too.

How time flies so quickly.

How it ended when you are not yet ready for the next day.

A night may be sentimental,

but it also gives you an

unexplainable energy

in the morning.

‘Cause God is merciful. πŸ™

After giving yourself a complete rest,

He’ll be giving you something that you all have been wanting and looking for…

Refueled energies

And

Lastly,

Renewed hope. πŸ™

Are you also fond of Late Night Talks?

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The moment I started Blogging

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To tell you honestly, I still don’t know how to monetize my blog.

Everything seems surreal to me and I just begun blogging a week ago.

So while everything is new to me, I explore WordPress App for the meantime.

Perhaps, some of you may wonder why I kept posting.

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Well, here are some facts that I want you all to know.

First and foremost,

Procastination is inevitable. Whether we like it or not, our brain also needs to shutdown. What I meant by that is, we also need to take some time off.

That’s why, I post as much as there is something I am motivated and inspired to write about. So when the time comes that I need to take a break, I can freely do so.

I honestly believe that all of us need to go out and explore life.

I completely understand that we love the idea of sitting down with ease while blogging.

But one day, you’ll also missed being away for some quite time.

Blogging will always be a part of our life. However, we cannot take control whoever will unfollow us, that is why you have to atleast build a strong connection with them. So while you are away, they will always be reminded of your good craft.

And who knows,

The moment you go back, everyone’s waiting for your new blog post to be shared.

I know, that’s the hardest and crucial part of blogging, but I find it quite fun and challenging.

The next one that I would like you to know is that, my birth month is September, which is why I write tons of topic so you won’t be missing be me.

Kidding aside,

I just want you all to know that I am taking a 5-day birthday leave by next week, so expect that I’ll be offline in a couple of days.

Lastly,

The moment I started blogging, I give up some of my leisure time for the reason that I want to focus on my craft, which is writting.

So,

How about you?

What are the things that you set aside for the meantime the moment you started to prioritize blogging?

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Follow Me, Follow Back

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Have you ever experienced someone who is begging to follow his/her blog or whatever social media he/she has?

And since you started blogging, you try to do the same.

But, does this actually work?

Nope!

Maybe for a short period of time, you’ll benefit from it.

However, there is no existing long-term followers on that matter ’cause from the very beginning, you didn’t have a solid connection with them.

That’s just a bargain.

So what makes them to stay longer following your blog?

Not unless, you have a clear content of what your topic is all about or something your readers/followers will gain from.

Now, is only my second week of using WordPress and everything felt surreal. ✨

And so what,

If I only have few followers at the moment? πŸ˜…

Those are the first set of people that I will forever treasure 🌠 ’cause they are the first one who recognized my work.

I would rather choose a long and rough road rather than a quick one.

‘Cause you wouldn’t appreciate every little success if you haven’t started from the buttom.

It’s like a Zero to One concept. 😎

You started from the scratch and little by little, you start to gain some followers. 😍

Isn’t it more exciting if every reader follows your blog?

It is so overwhelming to have followers ’cause that’s what makes you more inspired to create beautiful piece. πŸ’•

So make sure that your existing followers are real. In a sense that, you don’t need to beg for likes or for “follow me, follow back” thing.

Have some readers who follows you for the sake of being the first one to receive your new blog posts, which can brighten up their day as well. ☺

It’s a “domino effect” kind of thing.

If you also know how to appreciate their work and you consistently give them tons of kind words,

There’s bigger tendency that they will also become curious of what your blog is all about.

That is why, I don’t give fake ideas. What I felt is true and solid.

There is nothing to hide to my followers ’cause in the first place, I also wanted some real ones. πŸ’—

I hope I’ve made myself clear and Hello, to all my folllowers out there! πŸ‘‹

Thank you for following me πŸ’• and I’ll do my best to bring out smile in everyone’s face. πŸ˜‰

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C’est La Vie

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No matter how much

time, effort, and dedication

you did for your blog,

Only few people are appreciating your work.

So, what?

Now is the right time for you to

Challenge yourself for growth and development

or

Challenge yourself for acceptance

That in life…

Some are at the top and some are not.

But with continuous hard work and determination,

Everything will fall at the right place!

My First Ever Video Selfie

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I am honestly not so used to taking a video of myself, but just to have a real connection with my followers, I would like to thank you all for following me and appreciating my work. πŸ˜­πŸ’–

Once again, thank you for believing in me and I’ll be doing some more blog posts this week! 😁

Stay tuned! ☺


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Income: Active & Passive

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In my adulting journey,

there are two things I learned

concerning about income.

You might have already heard it or seen these terms, but didn’t care much about it.

Now is the right time to think about your future.

If you are now earning or just started earning, might as well know these two golden rules about income.

Let’s start!

Active Income is as simple as

“No Work, No Pay” concept

Of course, as you take some leave, there are some benefits/ incentives you’ll be getting from.

However, these are just limited and will only depend on your job position or how long have you stayed in that company.

But as you leave work,

That will be the end of your source of income!

Now,

You start to think of other ways on how to maximize your earning potential.

That’s when Passive Income comes in!

this is the “No Work, But with Earn” concept

How is that possible? How can that be?

It goes this way,

If you are not a celebrity or professional and just an ordinary employee who earns a little, you might want to start a small business of your own.

In that way, even though you take some leave, as long as there are trusted people in your business, you will always get to have a passive income no matter what.

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But this is both a good/bad news for you

because…

this is not applicable to everyone. For some it works, but for many it didn’t.

This is only a suggestion if you feel like quitting a job or feel like you still need more to either support your family or your personal needs.

Whatever it may be, money is a way for us to live!

So stop babbling and being hypocrite that we-dont-need-money!

Whether we want money or not, still money is a necessity in our life.

So have you learned something?

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Momentum

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” Just write anything

One thing I vividly recall about my schoolteacher in Journalism class way back in highschool.

We were ask to write an essay whatever that comes to mind.

At first, I thought he was insane but as I get older, I came to realize that what he meant by that is some sort of “momentum” like once your brain started working,

Everything just pops out to mind without realizing that you started to have a mental diarrhea.

A term used for most writers when they get plenty of ideas out of brainstorming.

I honestly thought that everything was such a waste of time and energy to start a topic without any idea.

But at the end of the day…

I have come to realize that great ideas usually come from uncertainty that when we free our mind to possibilities, that’s when we naturally write the most!

Here’s to an unexpected journey of mine as a blogger.

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Crocodile Tears

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Have you ever met someone who became so complacent about lying?

Well, we all do.

Today, I would like to share some of the red flags I myself experienced firsthand.

Though this is not a 100% guarantee that you will be able to catch the person if he in the first place already mastered the art of lying.

Meaning to say, he already got accustomed in making lies perhaps due to peer pressure, family expectations, and or high standards/ requirements either from school or work.

But the buttom line is, whether there’s a valid reason behind it or not, lying is never a good idea and shouldn’t be tolerated.

So without further ado, here are some techniques you can do about it:

  • Make an eye to eye contact

Do you know that according to psychology, the person who is not telling the truth cannot maintain an eye to eye contact?

You may also have observed that his body is shaking or his eyes are somewhere else because of thinking of other ways to reason out.

  • Know if he always acts like a victim

Be alert especially at times when a person acts in such a way that made you feel that you are the one attacking him without any basis or solid proof.

For some occasion, he may also do the “fake tears” thing in order to make you feel even worse!

Like you are the person who is a war freak who doesn’t even know how to discuss things in a nice and friendly manner.

Sounds ridiculous, right?

  • Does he make a lot of excuses?

Been there, done that!

And I know how it feels whenever someone is trying to cover up his made up lies.

In fact, I had known one who lied on me several times.

Though I cannot put everything here in details, but let me share with you how I get even more paranoid and suspicious about the way he lies.

The first thing I could vividly remember is that, he cannot get a job because of high requirements in working abroad.

Second, his family needs him more in the house so he gave up his dreams; also to give way for his brother to take his place for the meantime.

Third, he became fed up of trying because of so much failures and disappointments that he faced along the way.

He then blame me for being so concerned about him to the point of calling me such a nagger; giving him a lot of unsolicited advice and so and so forth.

Being in that kind of relationship is toxic and depressing.

But also keep in mind that this scenario does not only happen in relationship ’cause it could also happen even in family and friends who were driven by pride, jealousy, envy and the like, so you have to be more cautious of giving your trust away.

After all, not everyone can admit to themselves that they are at fault despite the fact of being caught.

I hope I was able to give the reader a clue or at least be of a great help to you to somehow ease your pain and heartache you might be struggling with, ’cause life is still beautiful no matter what.

Here are just some of the things I discovered along the way.

I know, there’s more of this to discuss, so feel free to share your ideas, and experiences with me and kindly leave a comment below.

Gracias!

PS: I’ve seen a nice video about crocodile tears, you might want to watch it.

Enjoy!


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Public Display of Affection

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While it is pretty normal to show affection to your loved ones, there are certain limitations you need to consider.

First, know your place.

Regardless of the fact that you live or used to live in a liberated country, keep in mind that not all people around you are comfortable enough by it.

Second, always try to set a good example to everyone ’cause what other sees in you might encourage them to do the same thing.

Let’s not forget that we are great influencers through our words and actions, so let’s try to be more vigilant from now on.

Third, better safe than sorry.

Whether you mind it or not, social media can be used against you.

They could even threaten your life or career.

So, I suggest that you wouldn’t risk everything just for one thing. – PDA


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You Get What You Pay For

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In this time and age, people are becoming more comfortable shopping online.

Not only because it is convenient, but also because it is affordable if you are to compare it from the existing shopping malls out there.

Unfortunately, people somehow forgot to be logical anymore.

Even though they knew from the very beginning why such item dropped its price suspiciously, they still end up buying it and later on, kept complaining why the purchased item did not at least meet their expectations.