3 Necessities Before You Change Your Last Name To Him

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Settling down means you are taking your life into a big chapter.

And marriage is not something you could throw up once you’ve become fed up of your partner.

‘Cause the truth is…

In marriage, there’s no turning back.

If marriage did not work, you may file a divorce to end your marriage.

But in some other countries like here in the philippines, it is not yet fully been approved.

Cause it is said to be that our country is a pro-family.

They believed that, legalizing a divorce in our country would mean encouraging many citizens to have broken families.

Well, that’s their say.

Which is why, the process of annulment (or to void the marriage) takes a lot of time, effort and of course, money.

Nowadays,

People think that marriage was an easy task so long as both individuals are head over heels (or madly deeply in love) with each other.

I know, I am in no position to say this, but let me share with you some of the things you need to consider before settling down.

Aside from having the man of your dreams (e.g. financially stable, single with endearing personalities, etc ).

Getting a stable job.

Being able to find your own self.

Being able to achieve your dreams.

Most of all,

Being physically, emotionally and financially ready…

You need to remember these 3 golden rules before deciding to live with him.

First,

By tradition especially here in the philippines, a man needs to ask a permission from the family of his woman before living together.

Meaning to say, he needs to marry her either through a civil or a church wedding; or can do both.

‘Cause I honestly believe that…

If a man has a high respect to you and to your family,

Legalizing the union must also be his top priority for it is the most important family tradition regardless of religion.

Not only that, it also serves as a blessing from above (God) if both of you will have a legal union.

Second,

The man must be able to buy you a lot (or a land) to prove to the family of his woman that he can be a good provider in the context of marriage.

Not just having the qualities of a family man or a husband material.

On that note, a good provider is the epitome of manliness.

If the man is not capable of providing for the family, it is better to live single.

Cause a marriage without sustainability will not survive.

Ladies…

For obvious reason, married life means you are ready enough to create a family of your own at your own house as husband and wife.

In my own perspective, size doesn’t really matter. As long as there’s enough space to start a family of your own, that won’t be an issue.

And lastly,

The most obvious one is of course, a house.

Something we could proudly say that we owned it.

C’mon guys, don’t you think that we have the right to manage our own house the way we want it to be?

Please pardon me for I have to separate the lot from a house.

‘Cause sadly,

Not everyone can easily build you a house compare to buying you a lot.

In most cases,

Men offered you a lot for thinking that they can magically build a house with you in an instant.

Not even realizing that building a house takes time which needs to be taxed and insured (not mandatory but still essential) as well.

Otherwise,

It can be taken away from you and your new family at any moment.

If you have acquired these 3 significant factors, I guess everything else will follow.

What do you think, Ladies?

Anyway, what for you are the things that will make you change your mind in order to settle down?

Please leave a comment below and share it with us your kind of point of view with regards to marriage.

Thank you for patiently reading my lengthy post, RT Peeps. God bless!


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Why Even Royalties Experience to Pity Themselves?

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Most people believed that money is the answer to everything.

If it truly does…

Then why even royalties or the rich ones on earth get to pity themselves?

It just shows that no matter how luxurious your life is…

You still get to experience frustrations in life not because you are not contented with the kind of life you have, but rather because we are all human beings.

Regardless of your life’s status, you will still get to experience this and that’s pretty normal. As clichΓ© as it may sound, not everything you could get.

Especially the intangible ones.

Namely,

Friendship, love, trust, and even passion.

Why Friendship?

Because we are wired to speak and to communicate. Failing to have someone to talk to leads you to question your life.

Why Love?

Because without it, there’s no reason to continue living.

The truth is…

No one can live on earth without anyone by their side.

Imagine you are just a baby and there was no one around.

No food.

No water.

Not even a shelter.

You think you could survive?

Why Trust?

I hate to say this, but all of us have experienced some kind of trust issues wherever we go.

And having no one to trust feels like you are invisible; that you don’t exist at all!

Lastly,

Why Passion?

Because I believe, we all have a purpose in life. God placed us on earth to find meaning in our lives.

And a life without a passion is like waiting for yourself to die without even knowing what you truly wanted in life.

See?

Not everything is about money.

It is about our relationship with God; with people whom we can trust and share our firsts moment.

And lastly, about how we see and treat ourselves.

How about you?

What intangible things that made you to pity yourself?

These are just some of the things that I believe is hard to find as well as to earn.

Please comment below and tell me what you think about my topic for today.

Gracias!


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When was the last time you had a heart to heart conversation?

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This is something we don’t usually do, most especially when our mind is always occupied with a lot of things.

Rest In The Lord

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I know, the competition in the field of blogging is quite depressing, but try not to be.

For God is offering his loving arms to console you.

Whatever you may be going through, I know that anytime of the day, you can always rest in the loving arms of the Lord.

God never fails to give me that unexplainable energy every single day.

How about you?

Who is your ultimate source of strength?

Share it below!

By the way, if you are also fond of reading christian book, you might want to read “Better Than Jewels“.

It’s a weekly devotional book, plus it’s easy to read.

Click the provided link, so you’ll get to know the book better.

Gracias!


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You’re not broken. You’re just single!

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It is indeed true that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

As I age, I appreciate the kind of life I am receiving as a single woman.

It is not because I am not lovable, it is just because I have a lot of stuff to still work on.

You see, as you age things become even more complicated.

And being in a relationship feels like a chore, too.

That is not exaggerating, but that’s a reality.

Being in a relationship means you also have to devote your time and energy for someone you’re committed to.

So if you think you wouldn’t exist without having a partner of your dreams?

Think again. You are just overreacting.

You’re not broken. You’re just single!

So come to your senses and focus on the things that truly matter in your life.


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Love-Hate

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Just a month ago, I really had a

Love-Hate Relationship

with the WordPress app.

It was such a nice platform, where you can share all your thoughts and ideas.

However, it kept crashing and I wasn’t able to save my beautiful piece.

But inspite of everything,

I have come to love the idea of…

Determination & Persistence

That whatever obstacles that I may face, as long as WordPress remains in us, I can endure it! πŸ’ͺ

Maybe this app has already been overused in any way that we have no idea.

Or

The app in some ways is already giving us signals to slow down a bit.

That…

Everything will be delivered at the right place and time.

Continue reading “Love-Hate”

Love or Career

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All of us have experienced this kind of feeling most especially when we are now aging and becoming busier.

So, is it…

Love or Career? πŸ™Š

Well, to be honest here, if you can do both…

Then why not? That’s really an amazing thing to know. πŸ˜ƒ

But that’s also depend on the situation.

Let’s admit that most women are really multitaskers.

Not unless, she’s really not into a man she’s committed to. ✌

I myself can honestly do both, but whenever I feel like this relationship is going nowhere…

I just cut it out ’cause I don’t want my whole self to be ruined again.

Admit it or not, all humans are emotional beings.

We’ve already had went through hardships and break ups.

We also did know both the ugly and beautiful process of moving forward and moving on.

However, men and women have their own kind of way of feeling pain.

What’s more hurting to women are not really that painful to men or vice versa.

The is why, if you can no longer handle pain and suffering, you also have the freedom to end relationship.

After all, your life shouldn’t concentrate on one person, but more so…

yourself, your family and all the people who cared for you the most. ☺

Destined Love will always find its way to get you. 😍

So don’t stress yourself too much and stop dwelling on things that didn’t workout, but rather see the positive light of privileges and freedom of being single again. πŸ™†

How about you? How have you dealt with failed or failing relationship?

How do you change your mindset whenever you lose someone who is dear to you?

Comment below!

All of us have experienced this kind of heartaches every once in awhile. πŸ˜‰


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