Why 2gether: The Series is worth watching?

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Ever wondered why this series became a hit? Well, you are at the right place ’cause I am about to tell you what made this series touched many lives.

First, the most obvious one is the fact that it talks about LGBT community where it shows an acceptance to someone’s sexual orientation. Regardless of gender, he/she is still a human who also has feelings. In addition to that, this Thai TV series show that being gay or liking someone of the same gender doesn’t mean it is a bad thing. It is just not normal for other people to see. Through this, viewers were taught that it is not wrong to like someone of the same gender. I believe that it is not even their own choice to become like that, but rather it is God’s plan. Even though we are still young and innocent, people can already see several signs that this child maybe gay or lesbian by just observing his or her behavior. Some people cannot just handle the fact that it turned that way and continue to hope that he/she will magically change once they’ve become attracted to an opposite sex. But I’ll tell you, no matter how much effort you’ve tried to avoid it, if it is bound to happen, it will happen.

Why God chose them to be different?

Probably to teach us to have some kind of respect and not just an acceptance for one another. To know that your worth was actually not measured by your own sexual preference, but rather by how well you treat others and that is what truly matters to our great creator.

Second, it talks about insecurities. Male, female or someone in between has that. It just goes to show that being in a relationship does not mean would make you stronger. ‘Cause at the end of the day, no matter how your partner try to love you, protect you or save you, if you alone have no confidence for yourself as well as your trust for your partner, then you need to focus on yourself first instead of staying in a relationship. Not only that this will give you a lot of stress, but you will also put a lot of damage/harm to the person who gives nothing but his time and love for you. I know, having someone is a nice thing for it makes us giddy. But if you think that you are immature and cannot handle things, better yet not entertain any form of relationships at the meantime. Thus, I strongly believe that…

Being in a relationship shouldn’t make you feel small, but rather will boost your own self. It should also be a team who doesn’t hide anything for one another.

To have a kind of long lasting relationship, there should be trust for one another. I am not saying that you have to be complacent or act like a fool. I am just saying that maybe it is just your own insecurities that is destroying the relationship. Maybe you need to trust more and do more towards your partner. You see, relationship wouldn’t survive if one person remains to be weak. If you want a happy and long lasting relationship, do something about it. Fight for your love. Open up. And don’t just conclude that you fully understand everything you see or hear. Give the person at least the benefit of the doubt to make the relationship work; to make it last. πŸ’ž

Sometimes, good relationships are already there at our hands. However, if you were full of insecurities towards yourself, you will not be able to see it. You will always appear to be the victim in the relationship. But in the end, truth will prevail. ☝

One day, when you are already matured enough, you’ll know that what relationship truly needs is just a little bit of trust. If you cannot trust your own self worth, that is really going to be a lot of hard work to trust the other.

Sometimes, we are just eaten by our own emotions. We can’t think well and thus, more often than not, we are the ones who’s at fault. πŸ’”

By the way, this is also not to say that you have to keep the relationship going if you are no longer happy and confident about this relationship. If you have been physically and emotionally abused, of course, that’s a different story from having trust issues in the relationship. I know, oftentimes, we easily assume that seeing your partner to be with the opposite sex is better for that is what the thing that is acceptable to our society. But if the person you love is telling you that it is just nothing, then you better believe it. Not unless it is pretty obvious that this person is cheating on you, then you must leave. But again, if it is just in your head, why not give it a little bit of patience and trust to prove that his love for you is pure and genuine. 😍

After all, creating a beautiful relationship doesn’t happen overnight.

You need to work hard for it!

Lastly, is pride. You see, whenever we are hurt, we appear to be as strong and as ready just like everyone else. We try to accept responsibilities when in fact, we are not earning money yet, but simply relying on the allowance given by our parents or relatives. Whenever we are hurt, we want to skip level 1 to be at level 100 ’cause we feel that someone is looking down on us. I tell you, people maybe mean to you, but to be honest, you are hurting because that’s a fact! Instead of wallowing yourself in sorrow, why not use that hurt or pain into a kind of motivation to study and work even harder. To think for your future self and not to go easy on life. Life is such a pain. Teenage life is shorter, so while you are still enjoying your youth, as early as now, start by doing something right. It could be by simply attending classes, submitting school requirements, honing your talent, knowing yourself better, and the like.

One day, all the people who looked down on you will know that they have wronged you. Again, use that pain in creating yourself for something great, rather than choosing to be weak; locking yourself in the room; and or taking a lot of alcohols just to not feel anything. Just to feel that through drinking, you hope that all the hurting will be gone too soon. But nope, the reality is there. It won’t be gone. You just covered it up, so instead of fooling yourself and feeling bad, why not take it as a lesson? Take it into another challenge. Learn to embrace new things ’cause in life, there is nothing permanent. You need to be flexible in every way!

These are some of the things that I like about watching this TV series. I hope and pray that you get the point of this sharing and that is, to accept yourself fully without seeking any validation from others, to reduce and get rid of your own insecurites, to put your guard down and lessen your pride. All of these are connected to mental health. Try to condition your mind in a healthy matter where in, you will be able to see positive things about yourself; that you are not competing with anyone. You are just simply making some improvement for your own self and lastly, you will take that insult as a motivation to prove them wrong. πŸ‘Š

Now, I would love to hear from you why this Thai TV series is worth watching for the youth? If you’ve watched this series, what scene has strucked you the most and realize that though it is somewhat offensive, it has a point.

Let’s all remember than constructive criticism is different from bashing.

Feel free to comment below and thank you for taking the time to read my blog for today. ❀ God bless! πŸ™

3 Necessities Before You Change Your Last Name To Him

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Settling down means you are taking your life into a big chapter.

And marriage is not something you could throw up once you’ve become fed up of your partner.

‘Cause the truth is…

In marriage, there’s no turning back.

If marriage did not work, you may file a divorce to end your marriage.

But in some other countries like here in the philippines, it is not yet fully been approved.

Cause it is said to be that our country is a pro-family.

They believed that, legalizing a divorce in our country would mean encouraging many citizens to have broken families.

Well, that’s their say.

Which is why, the process of annulment (or to void the marriage) takes a lot of time, effort and of course, money.

Nowadays,

People think that marriage was an easy task so long as both individuals are head over heels (or madly deeply in love) with each other.

I know, I am in no position to say this, but let me share with you some of the things you need to consider before settling down.

Aside from having the man of your dreams (e.g. financially stable, single with endearing personalities, etc ).

Getting a stable job.

Being able to find your own self.

Being able to achieve your dreams.

Most of all,

Being physically, emotionally and financially ready…

You need to remember these 3 golden rules before deciding to live with him.

First,

By tradition especially here in the philippines, a man needs to ask a permission from the family of his woman before living together.

Meaning to say, he needs to marry her either through a civil or a church wedding; or can do both.

‘Cause I honestly believe that…

If a man has a high respect to you and to your family,

Legalizing the union must also be his top priority for it is the most important family tradition regardless of religion.

Not only that, it also serves as a blessing from above (God) if both of you will have a legal union.

Second,

The man must be able to buy you a lot (or a land) to prove to the family of his woman that he can be a good provider in the context of marriage.

Not just having the qualities of a family man or a husband material.

On that note, a good provider is the epitome of manliness.

If the man is not capable of providing for the family, it is better to live single.

Cause a marriage without sustainability will not survive.

Ladies…

For obvious reason, married life means you are ready enough to create a family of your own at your own house as husband and wife.

In my own perspective, size doesn’t really matter. As long as there’s enough space to start a family of your own, that won’t be an issue.

And lastly,

The most obvious one is of course, a house.

Something we could proudly say that we owned it.

C’mon guys, don’t you think that we have the right to manage our own house the way we want it to be?

Please pardon me for I have to separate the lot from a house.

‘Cause sadly,

Not everyone can easily build you a house compare to buying you a lot.

In most cases,

Men offered you a lot for thinking that they can magically build a house with you in an instant.

Not even realizing that building a house takes time which needs to be taxed and insured (not mandatory but still essential) as well.

Otherwise,

It can be taken away from you and your new family at any moment.

If you have acquired these 3 significant factors, I guess everything else will follow.

What do you think, Ladies?

Anyway, what for you are the things that will make you change your mind in order to settle down?

Please leave a comment below and share it with us your kind of point of view with regards to marriage.

Thank you for patiently reading my lengthy post, RT Peeps. God bless!


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Why Even Royalties Experience to Pity Themselves?

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Most people believed that money is the answer to everything.

If it truly does…

Then why even royalties or the rich ones on earth get to pity themselves?

It just shows that no matter how luxurious your life is…

You still get to experience frustrations in life not because you are not contented with the kind of life you have, but rather because we are all human beings.

Regardless of your life’s status, you will still get to experience this and that’s pretty normal. As clichΓ© as it may sound, not everything you could get.

Especially the intangible ones.

Namely,

Friendship, love, trust, and even passion.

Why Friendship?

Because we are wired to speak and to communicate. Failing to have someone to talk to leads you to question your life.

Why Love?

Because without it, there’s no reason to continue living.

The truth is…

No one can live on earth without anyone by their side.

Imagine you are just a baby and there was no one around.

No food.

No water.

Not even a shelter.

You think you could survive?

Why Trust?

I hate to say this, but all of us have experienced some kind of trust issues wherever we go.

And having no one to trust feels like you are invisible; that you don’t exist at all!

Lastly,

Why Passion?

Because I believe, we all have a purpose in life. God placed us on earth to find meaning in our lives.

And a life without a passion is like waiting for yourself to die without even knowing what you truly wanted in life.

See?

Not everything is about money.

It is about our relationship with God; with people whom we can trust and share our firsts moment.

And lastly, about how we see and treat ourselves.

How about you?

What intangible things that made you to pity yourself?

These are just some of the things that I believe is hard to find as well as to earn.

Please comment below and tell me what you think about my topic for today.

Gracias!


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When was the last time you had a heart to heart conversation?

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This is something we don’t usually do, most especially when our mind is always occupied with a lot of things.

Rest In The Lord

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I know, the competition in the field of blogging is quite depressing, but try not to be.

For God is offering his loving arms to console you.

Whatever you may be going through, I know that anytime of the day, you can always rest in the loving arms of the Lord.

God never fails to give me that unexplainable energy every single day.

How about you?

Who is your ultimate source of strength?

Share it below!

By the way, if you are also fond of reading christian book, you might want to read “Better Than Jewels“.

It’s a weekly devotional book, plus it’s easy to read.

Click the provided link, so you’ll get to know the book better.

Gracias!


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You’re not broken. You’re just single!

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It is indeed true that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

As I age, I appreciate the kind of life I am receiving as a single woman.

It is not because I am not lovable, it is just because I have a lot of stuff to still work on.

You see, as you age things become even more complicated.

And being in a relationship feels like a chore, too.

That is not exaggerating, but that’s a reality.

Being in a relationship means you also have to devote your time and energy for someone you’re committed to.

So if you think you wouldn’t exist without having a partner of your dreams?

Think again. You are just overreacting.

You’re not broken. You’re just single!

So come to your senses and focus on the things that truly matter in your life.


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Love-Hate

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Just a month ago, I really had a

Love-Hate Relationship

with the WordPress app.

It was such a nice platform, where you can share all your thoughts and ideas.

However, it kept crashing and I wasn’t able to save my beautiful piece.

But inspite of everything,

I have come to love the idea of…

Determination & Persistence

That whatever obstacles that I may face, as long as WordPress remains in us, I can endure it! πŸ’ͺ

Maybe this app has already been overused in any way that we have no idea.

Or

The app in some ways is already giving us signals to slow down a bit.

That…

Everything will be delivered at the right place and time.

Continue reading “Love-Hate”

Love or Career

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All of us have experienced this kind of feeling most especially when we are now aging and becoming busier.

So, is it…

Love or Career? πŸ™Š

Well, to be honest here, if you can do both…

Then why not? That’s really an amazing thing to know. πŸ˜ƒ

But that’s also depend on the situation.

Let’s admit that most women are really multitaskers.

Not unless, she’s really not into a man she’s committed to. ✌

I myself can honestly do both, but whenever I feel like this relationship is going nowhere…

I just cut it out ’cause I don’t want my whole self to be ruined again.

Admit it or not, all humans are emotional beings.

We’ve already had went through hardships and break ups.

We also did know both the ugly and beautiful process of moving forward and moving on.

However, men and women have their own kind of way of feeling pain.

What’s more hurting to women are not really that painful to men or vice versa.

The is why, if you can no longer handle pain and suffering, you also have the freedom to end relationship.

After all, your life shouldn’t concentrate on one person, but more so…

yourself, your family and all the people who cared for you the most. ☺

Destined Love will always find its way to get you. 😍

So don’t stress yourself too much and stop dwelling on things that didn’t workout, but rather see the positive light of privileges and freedom of being single again. πŸ™†

How about you? How have you dealt with failed or failing relationship?

How do you change your mindset whenever you lose someone who is dear to you?

Comment below!

All of us have experienced this kind of heartaches every once in awhile. πŸ˜‰


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My Life, My Testimony

But I knew deep down in my heart, that I was not completely happy.

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The reason why I am writing this, is simply because I cannot contain my emotions.

It is so overwhelming and it is quite fulfilling at the same time.

This is me,

A writer and a manager

by accident.

But my sole reason to write this down wasn’t really to make you feel small about yourself, but rather to see this thing in a positive light.

You see,

Life is hard and so is the person who is talking to you now.

I had been in so much pain for the past several years of my life and little by little, I start to become more bitter of the hurtful truth that…

Others have already discovered their

Thing“.

I myself had been so depressed that only few people know what I had been going through.

It’s like, every time I look at myself in the mirror…

I’ll repetitively ask,

Who are you?!

I don’t even know.

Are you really happy with what you have?

Does growing up from a well-off family would be truly enough?

To keep you & make you happy?

Well, for some it’s fine.

But not for me.

I am not denying the fact that I did not enjoy my privilege nor my kind of freedom in some areas of my life.

But I knew deep down in my heart, that I was not completely happy.

I need to do something about it.

For so many years, I’d been trying anything and everything just to make myself feel good.

Fast forward, I wasn’t okay at all.

I was broken into pieces that only myself could fix!

I was longing for answers.

Each night, I kept asking.

Why I knew nothing so much about my strength?!

What’s my strength?

I honestly don’t even know.

But God in mysterious ways led me into something I didn’t plan nor expected to have.

I have been given a position which a lot of people became envious of.

A manager,

Something that they cannot ever be replaced ’cause…

I am a manager

by accident.

I am the daughter of their boss, so how can they ever beat that?

But though I was given a high position, never did I try to become complacent and relaxed.

As much as possible, I trained people to be well-guided.

And

If possible,

To be well-educated.

Meaning, not only that they will end up being knowledgeable,

But also with manners and right conduct.

Anyone who fails, need a one-on-one talk from me.

The next big thing is,

being a writer/blogger.

Well, the truth is…

I have always been a fan of blogs.

However, I did not see this coming.

I have just always wanted to read good stuffs here and there.

But never did I ever want to speak for the world.

However,

Life is full of mysteries.

You’ll never know what you’ll ever get.

So with that, I am planning to write a book by 2020!

Hopefully, I could pursue it despite of my obligations at home and at work.

You know what,

God has always been amazing to us.

We have always wanted something, but God didn’t allow us to have that.

‘Cause for obvious reason,

That is not the one that’s in store for you.

And if ever we did try our best, still God is the maker of our life.

There is nothing else we could do, but to trust Him enough and see where is this going far.

And if for several times, you did doubt yourself…

It’s fine!

‘Cause God will always lead you to the right path.

No matter how confusing your life gets!

Actually, it’s only my second week of blogging.

But who would have thought that I’ve already written and discussed more than 30 topics for almost 2 weeks!

Imagine how truly great God is! 😭

And that’s when I realized that,

Ah, this is really what God wants me to be. πŸ’•

He uses me to speak for all of you about the Good news!

And that is,

CLARITY!

That someday, somehow God will make you realize why you have to go through all that sacrifices and pain.

Because…

He wants you to be ready enough for

Greatness.

Great blessings.

Great opportunities.

But most of all,

Great God!

That no matter what you do, you cannot outrun his provisions for you.

And I would like to end my post by a question that,

If God is here in front of you, what would you want to say?

Comment below!


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You Matter

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Whatever you may be doing right now,

It is better to think about your health first over anything else.

With all the obligations you carry in your daily life,

It’s kinda impossible to take a leave and look for a way to escape.

But if you don’t do it now,

Then how would you want to see yourself in the future?

Your life is precious!

Do something that you future self will be thankful for.


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