Can You Delay Gratification?

Hello, RT Supporters! Today, we’re going to talk about the significant benefits of delaying one’s gratification.

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As time goes by, it is now easier to earn money in this modern generation because of the help of social media.

However, just because someone is already earning doesn’t necessarily mean there’s no need to delay one’s desire.

We are all created equal and the same. We only became separated with each other because of our current status in life.

But the truth is, nobody lives in a perfect world. Everyone has problems and no one is ever been exempted in that situation.

Without further ado, let’s discuss and enumerate what makes the delay truly worth the wait!

Since there’s a lot to mention, I’ll be focusing only on 3 factors.

Peace Of Mind

First of all, when you delay something it gives you peace of mind. Simply because you are not stuck in situation where in, you are still not capable of resolving problems on your own.

Say for example, becoming a mother at the age of 13 is not an easy role. And in general, most teenage moms often ask an assistance either from their family, relatives or to whom they could at least get a support or guidance.

Healthy Decision

Second is the fact that you delay things give you an ample time to make healthy and better decisions.

As what I remembered and learned from Netflix’s Documentary Film, “The Minimalist” being simple is hard to achieve compared to being easy.

That’s because being easy means you just go with the flow. Whereas, being simple requires a lot of planning and hard work and that’s similar in making life choices.

It’s way easier to follow the norm than to plan things on your own.

But I want to tell you that once you delay your desire…you are not only making your life free from any trauma or stress, but you are reducing the probability of facing such difficulty in life.

Getting pregnant at the age of 13 is not and will never be a wise decision to make.

Not only that you are underage, but that can still be considered as child sexual abuse even though it is not by force and with your consent.

Simply because you are still young and innocent which means that you are prone to being gullible and vulnerable.

Whoever is reading this that is still a minor, I hope and pray that there is someone who will look after you even if you already reached your legal age.

So many people make unwise decisions in life because of the lack of support from their parents or guardians.

One thing I’ve learned from Mom is the fact that I am curious doesn’t mean I have to try it. Experience is not always the best teacher. If it could be prevented, then it could lead to a positive outcome such as by graduating on time, be able to focus on your growth first, and lastly being being able to savor whatever you currently have today.


Last but not the least, when you delay what you desire prepares you enough for greater responsibility in the future.

People will always have problems. However, better things happen to those who delay things because not only that they mature over time, but they become more equipped in solving problems on their own.

They are not just physically, mentally, and socially prepared, but they, too are now spiritually and financially prepared.

Whatever life throws at them, they are now strong and can endure the pain of hardships in life.

Money is not really the cause of evil. If use wisely, it can be a solution to anyone’s problem.

Now, let me ask you a question.

Are you the type of person who delays gratification or consume whatever resources you have right now?

Say for example, instead of saving money for your business, you spend all your money in building a house.

Well, there is nothing wrong in owning a house, however you don’t earn from it. Not unless you both have enough passive and active income to sustain it.

Whereas, owning a business helps you to cover your rent expense, pay for electricity and water bill, and so on and so forth.

Similar to becoming a Mom, it is better to delay the baby first. Rather than having a baby you are not yet ready to shoulder responsibilities with.

So, can you now delay gratification or you still haven’t change your mind?

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By the way, I only post once a week and my topic will be published depending on my chosen topic to also give you a little bit of surprise.

Again, thank you and I’ll be sharing more interesting insights by next week!

Below The Belt Criticism of Protesters

Finally, it’s Thursday! Time for current events to discuss. Today, we’re going to talk about the behavior of protesters.

How it affects us and what is their purpose in calling for an attention. Since this event continue to happen worldwide, I think we need to be well informed of the difference of constructive criticism from bashing.

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I already mentioned it on my previous post that bashing is simply subjective for it usually based on personal feelings. Whereas, constructive criticism is objective for there has been a basis for it.

And since this is going to be a long discussion, I want you to relax and find a quite place to read.

Now, without further ado, here’s the issue.

Last December 10, 2020 while I was scanning for news on Facebook, I saw one article from GMA News about the effigy of President Rodrigo Duterte which will be used in Manila for rally to mark it’s International Human Rights Day.

We all know that becoming a President is the most challenging one, for you are given the highest position to lead for your countrymen. It is both a great honor and a blessing to have it. Unfortunately, whoever gets that position will also receive a lot of hatred from people.

In the website of GMA News the President was accused of committing human rights violations, specifically on the violent war on drugs which have killed thousand of lives.

The moment I’ve read the news, it got me to think of why of all those things they’ve given more attention on the killing of people who used to be a drug addict and got involved in the operation of producing and selling of illegal drugs?

I am not saying that, we should not care about the lost lives of people, most especially the innocent ones. What I am really pointing out is the drug lords and drug users who need to be arrested and be killed. Otherwise, millions of people will be the one to suffer.

If there has been some lapses on the part of anti-drug operations, I’m sure there might be some valid reasons behind it. You see, some suspects do not want to get arrested so they try hard to escape. In most common scenario, suspects often bring a sharp object for self-defense and as a general rule of policemen, when suspects tried to escape and kill other people, they have no other choice but to shoot them especially if there has already been a hard evidence.

As a citizen, I know most people would think that they do not need to punish criminals just for them to repent and pay for all the crimes they’ve made. But I believe that anyone who may be in that position of policemen have no other choice, but to act fast.

We may also be thinking that, policemen can choose to only shoot the suspects’ feet or legs to stop them from running away. But it would also be a challenge if suspects are already far from them.

If ever there has been a foul play in the incident, punishment must be made with no exemptions.

Again, I do not get why they give more importance on war on drugs since there are a lot more issues here in the Philippines that need to get an immediate action in order to find justice.

The following are just some of the things that violate Human Rights:

The shutdown and non-renewal of ABS-CBN franchise despite no violations.

Justice for Maria Ressa and Leila De Lima.

The absolute pardon of Pemberton who found guilty of killing a Filipino transgender.

Not bringing of officials to prison for their violations on heath protocols.

Only the ordinary and powerless people are being punished. Whereas, those who have a connection from the government are being freed and not being penalized for their wrong actions.

I am not saying all of them, but in most cases this happen all the time.

He are just a few cases that put justice into question.

Anyway, I honestly salute all protesters for standing up for their rights and making some noise to spread awareness. But let us all remember that not all protesters are of the same kind.

Some of them are consistent in raising an awareness for a good cause. Unfortunately, other protesters were only used to spreading hate to whoever got the position for presidency like as if they are more capable of changing the world into a better place and these people are jobless, homeless, and rebels. All of them boils down to not being socially responsible for the country.

Oftentimes, they blame the government for poverty when in fact, they are the ones who failed to finish their studies, have no financial and family planning, have no ambition, and the like.

If they truly see themselves as better citizens, then why waste all their energy and money on effigy?

I get the point of using props and that is to convey a message. But after burning all that stuff, will that improve their lives? Will they earn money after protesting?

If they desperately want a change in our country, then the change must start from within.

Instead of fueling their anger towards the government, then help the bereaved family of the victims. Find a decent job and work hard enough to give your family a better future. Stop all your vices and be a responsible citizen. Do not start a family if you are not yet financially ready. Lastly, study hard and become socially aware on our surroundings so we won’t be fooled by them.

Just to clarify, I am not siding the government nor the protesters. What I am saying is the fact that there is already an existing problem in our country, better stop adding more problems to it. Stop blaming all the people for your bad luck, sad life and the circumstances you’ve never expected to happen just like pandemic and super typhoon.

These are some of the things we have no control of. Instead of putting all the blame to the government, why not be just all honest with our shortcomings?

If we see the President as imperfect and incompetent, and so did we.

Let’s stop coming clean, accept all our flaws and do something about it.

All our actions have consequences and we are in no different from the President.

May we pray earnestly for him to give wisdom to correct whatever mistakes he has done for his people and may we also do the same for our family and ourselves.

I honestly voted for Duterte to become the President of the Philippines since Davao has low rates of crime due to his strict implementation of rules in his province. But that doesn’t mean that I often agree to every statement he made in public and just because I am not pleased with his performance, this should mean that I should insult the President including his appearance.

I do know that the sole purpose of protesting is to raise an awareness. But the moment I saw these photos, I deeply felt bad for my country.

He may not be the kindest President we ever had, but this is way too much; already below the belt!

Having a freedom of speech in our country doesn’t equates to having every right to brutally offend and mistreat anyone.

Let’s be straightforward. He may have a lot of flaws, but nobody deserves to be bashed.

I repeat, constructive criticism is objective. Whereas, bashing is subjective. Let us hopefully come to our senses and act like humans.

That’s why we are humans because we are far more better than animals. We are rational beings, so let’s not put ourselves into waste. May we raise our voices in a most respectful way.

There’s a saying that, do not put your dirty laundry in public because it will only reflect of what kind of person are you and it is indeed true.

Hating a person doesn’t mean we have to stoop that low and act wild.

That’s the problem in having a rally because not only that they may cause a traffic or any of forms of interruption, but they, too cause a harm to others. You see, there are some protesters who went too far in hurting people even the innocent ones.

In my own perspective, you can still continue to spread an awareness without the need to go outside and participate in the said rally. Mind you, our country is still not yet zero from covid-19 cases. Though, there’s already a vaccine for coronavirus, it is still better to be safe than regret in the end.

Regardless of how will they be able to maintain a distance from each other and no matter how much health protocols will they observe…joining a rally is never a healthy idea in the midst of pandemic.

In addition to that, most protesters will only leave their used props everywhere and will not be willing to dispose all their trashes at the appropriate place. They will leave their used materials from the streets causing more labor on the sweepers’ end.


Is protesting makes you a good citizen?

Well, for me depending on how will you participate in the said event. Know that whatever you do to your people will also go back to you. Good deeds will yield good results and bad deeds will also yield bad results.

So we better choose kindness, while it is not yet too late.

If you were able to read my blog post…

What is your reaction on President Rodrigo Duterte Effigy?

How do you feel that thousands of people viewed Duterte as a virus?

Well, if I were in the position of Duterte, I will view them as a disease for they are the real problem to our country. They kept on complaining rather than working hard enough to have a better living.

For me, killing of people is necessary most especially if they got involved in drugs. Not only that these are illegal, but also dangerous. For every person who will take illegal drugs, imagine how many people will suffer from rape, murder, homicide, suicide, and the like.

Instead of being a problem to our country, why not be the solution for it?

After all, anger just fuels anger and nothing else.

What is something you can do to at least make a difference?

For the nth time, let’s get straight to the point and humbly refrain from attacking people. They, too have feelings. It’s not right spreading hatred than giving them a clear message instead.

I hope you learned something today and I’ll give some tips by next week. The topic will be a surprise, so please tune in. Thank you for patiently reading my lengthy post and God bless!

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When a blogger tries to be a guru in everything.

Since it is Tuesday, my topic will be about my experiences as a blogger.

Funny as it may sound, but this topic is something that I am guilty of since I know little about blogging and did everything I could to appear as if I am already a pro in it.

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And you know what, it was honestly not a good feeling talking to your readers as if you’re an expert in everything.

As my journey of being a blogger goes on, I’ve come to realize that we still need to consult people or do a little bit of research to have a better knowledge on a certain topic than to try hard enough to appear to be a smart one.

I bet in general, we have assumed that exploring is understandable and so we’ve treated everything posted on our blog like our own.

In my blogging career, I’ve seen many bloggers who don’t put a value on recognizing their sources of information. They also shared several photos without giving any credits to whoever or where those photos taken. They tried so hard to give several information, but failed to mention where did they get all of those.

We live in unfair world, where the people who worked hard enough are the ones who do not receive enough credits for creating a masterpiece.

The truth is…

We can never be a guru in everything. Thus, we need to recognize those sites and people we’ve illegally used their sources.

While I understand that being a blogger is a long learning process, they would appreciate us more if we will only focus on what we know about or something we are truly good at and not trying to be good at everything.

I know that it is a nice feeling to be viewed as a well-rounded person, but what we are most forgetting in making our blog is that…

We must find ourselves in it.

What I’m trying to say is that, we should be honest with our readers. Don’t try to exaggerate things just for us to get an attention from the crowd. After all, nobody wants to be liked by people we are not.

Now, I want to ask about your own struggle in your blog.

It is normal to experiment first, but losing our own identity in order to gain a lot of readers is just like putting all our efforts into waste.


Because one day, we will all become tired and exhausted becoming someone we are not.

So while it is not too late, just be real with our content. Just like what I’ve said on my previous post, we can’t expect everyone to like everything we post.

All of us have different tastes and interests in life, so try not to feel little with our work.

But count everything as our progress. Whether it is a small or big achievement, we have to recognize it.

As long as we are trying hard and working hard, everything will surely pay off.

Have you tried to be a guru in everything?

If yes, what has been the most awful experience you’ve encountered from your readers? Feel free to comment below!

Thank you for reading my blog post and my next topic will be published after this week.

Cursing someone is not a good thing.

You know, it is hard to live when someone is just waiting for you to lose in the game of life.

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Today, my post will be short and simple. I was cursed by just one mistake. I was cursed that if something bad happen, it is because of my little mistake.

One mistake, end of your life!

How about you? How does it feel to be cursed by someone who is dear to you?

I am in deep shocked knowing that someone who is close to me can say such hurtful word like that.

How totally lame to focus more on the mistakes of others than to see and value them for their good deeds!

Thank you for taking the time to read my post and I am doing fine despite the curse that I unexpectedly received today.

Choose Your Own Struggle

You see, blogging is no different from working full-time especially if you are the only one managing your own blog.

The burden is all yours.

The struggle of promoting.

Thinking of what blog post to make.

How you want your website to look like.

It was never easy doing everything alone.

You might ask someone to do other things for you due to other work demands. Unfortunately, no one is willing to work for you without salary or wage. Not unless they are up for some kind of public service. But you see, nothing is permanent. One day they will come to you and sue you for not giving anything in return. In short, if you cannot compensate them, let’s just take things slowly.

Blogging is honestly not about rushing, but rather all about writing that has content and not just making your readers waste their time for nonsense stuff.


But one thing is for sure!

If you choose a career that is from your own will, it is possible and easy for you to endure the pain of working than pretending to love a job you have no interest with.

Isn’t it true that what makes us happy are the things we desperately want to achieve.

So, I’ll end my post by a question…

What struggle is worth having for you?

Thank you for reading my blog post, RT Peeps and may you have a blessed & productive day ahead.

Ever heard of this saying? “Doing Nothing Often Leads To the Very Best of Something”

Hello Fellas, I got this from the 2018 film Christopher Robin. It is just nice to know that such simple saying can create an impact to everyone’s life. It may sound cliché, but honestly it is often neglected by many even myself.

Growing up, I realized how hard it is to balance work, family, relationship and everything in between. Whatever you prioritize, there is this thing called a sense of gratitude. You’ve read it correctly! Admit it, we cannot survive every life’s struggle with no one to lean on and thus, we also cannot just leave them behind after all the care and understanding they have given to us.

Say for example, at work, I am pretty sure that most of us in general will not be able to surpass the hardships of extreme labor without any support system coming from our colleagues or loved ones. What we have achieved and what will be receiving in life is also their achievement for there is really no such thing as being alone for life. You may not have a family but I guess, everyone has that someone in our lives to help us get through it. It may not be by blood, but the connection or support system is there. Not just humans alone, but can also be your pet or plant you used to do a pep talk with. It’s quite weird, but though they are not responding exactly as humans, they are also alive and may somehow help you cope with reality.

Why am I sharing about this stuff?

Simply because I want everyone to remember that having a break doesn’t actually mean doing nothing, but rather creating a way to reconnect with your loved ones or someone who also needs your attention or support. Please do thank them and remind them how blessed you are to have them in your life. It may just be a simple gesture of love, but even small things can rekindle connection or friendship. We humans are wired to communicate and it won’t hurt our lives spending it for someone that also deserves it.

Try to observe your surroundings, maybe you need to water your plant or remove the dirt/dead leaves from them. Maybe your dog/cat needs a haircut or a bath. Or simply need a walk and play with them from time to time. You may also need some time alone to reflect or repent for your shortcomings. This may also be a chance for you to fix your stuff at home. Now, take this opportunity for the betterment of yourself. You might set a date for your loved ones or to whoever you ever wanted to express gratitude with, but failed to do so because of so much stuff on your plate.

Furthermore, also make a habit to cut your routine every once in awhile for there is so much thing in life and that is their presence. Do yourself a favor, make a call to your parents in case there has been an argument that hasn’t been able to solve. Ask for a vacation/sick leave in case your body is telling you to rest or might need a checkup. You may also request for a meetup with someone in case you want to ask for forgiveness. Reconciliation or closure is also a good thing ’cause you are freeing yourself from a heavy heart and hopefully, that will also go the same way for him /her.

In this time of pandemic, that does not mean we are constrained to do something about it. Nothing is ever limited to those who are willing enough to make time for those things you have failed doing so and is now willing to make amends.

On that note, doing nothing often leads to the very best of something because you are taking your time to redirect yourself; to correct what you have done wrong in your life; to appreciate their existence and worth. And most importantly, to realize God’s mercy that in everything we do, He is just there next to us who is always ready to extend his hands whenever we feel like quitting or giving up.

I hope I made you smile today and whatever you may be struggling, we got your back! Kindly leave us a comment below in case you need to voice out something or just want to give a feedback about this post.

Thank you so much for reading my blog post, RT Peeps! God bless and please don’t forget to practice the New Normal Guidelines in this trying time. Keep safe and good luck to do some catch up. 🙂

Why Would You Need To Expect Less?

Nowadays, people are so used to expect a lot from others; from their ambitions; from their status in life and so on and so forth.

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Yet, they failed to embrace uncertainties for they already pictured what being successful should look like.

As a result of that, they tried to do more than what is expected them to do. But doing more without a pause or a break will only cause you to feel burnout. So my advice is to not conclude that what did not work for you does not equate to not doing your best. God is simply redirecting you to what you truly deserve.

Have a leap of faith and take one step at a time.

Valentine’s Day Blues

Here we go again and again. It’s so hard to pretend that it’s fine or it’s going to be fine.

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Valentine’s Day supposed to be a celebration of love, yet so many people fell into idea that it was made for couples alone. It felt as if they are the only ones who are entitled to celebrate and to feel great, while others don’t have one or still not in a state of legal relationship. What’s more depressing is that, we single people tend to lock ourselves at home for we don’t like the idea of being left out or worst, being pitied and bullied on.

For someone like me who grew up being grounded, it’s so hard for me to adjust and to make friends to get along with others. My parents only have the two of us and they cannot afford to lose us. That is why, they are being so protective and sometimes, being paranoid✌ to the point of feeling that you cannot even breathe.

Well, our parents did everything just for us to remain happy and fulfilled. But though I always feel loved and secured, out of the blue, my heart will suddenly feel empty and the feeling of being lost comes next to it. But I have realized that I am feeling this way all because I was raised differently by our parents. I have just thought that, there is so much in life that I hardly relate to, which leads me to grew up being firm and extremely independent. In addition to that, I used to believe that my journey needs to be done alone and that’s fine with me as long as my family will be alive ’til 100 years old or beyond that age; or when I am ready to let them go.

Anyways, whenever I cry secretly, I die ’cause most people never know about it. I decide not to reveal my true emotions for I am sure that they will not understand me, not unless they were raised just the same as mine. You see, we may appear to be well-provided, but along the way, we were always constrained to do something.

I know, I know, that’s very saddening. Right? But though my heart is aching and feel like breaking into pieces, I still try to listen to them whenever possible and understand them that they are just doing it out of pure concern and love for us. As a result of that, I cannot imagine a life without my family.

For obvious reason, in my 25 years of existence, my life has been all about them and losing even one of them makes me want to die first before them.

So, this Valentine’s Day, all I’m asking and praying for is a complete family, ’cause (again) that’s all I’ve got.

How about you? What’s your story? Please comment below.

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3 Necessities Before You Change Your Last Name To Him

Settling down means you are taking your life into a big chapter.

And marriage is not something you could throw up once you’ve become fed up of your partner.

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‘Cause the truth is…

In marriage, there’s no turning back.

If marriage did not work, you may file a divorce to end your marriage.

But in some other countries like here in the philippines, it is not yet fully been approved.

Cause it is said to be that our country is a pro-family.

They believed that, legalizing a divorce in our country would mean encouraging many citizens to have broken families.

Well, that’s their say.

Which is why, the process of annulment (or to void the marriage) takes a lot of time, effort and of course, money.


People think that marriage was an easy task so long as both individuals are head over heels (or madly deeply in love) with each other.

I know, I am in no position to say this, but let me share with you some of the things you need to consider before settling down.

Aside from having the man of your dreams (e.g. financially stable, single with endearing personalities, etc ).

Getting a stable job.

Being able to find your own self.

Being able to achieve your dreams.

Most of all,

Being physically, emotionally and financially ready…

You need to remember these 3 golden rules before deciding to live with him.


By tradition especially here in the philippines, a man needs to ask a permission from the family of his woman before living together.

Meaning to say, he needs to marry her either through a civil or a church wedding; or can do both.

‘Cause I honestly believe that…

If a man has a high respect to you and to your family,

Legalizing the union must also be his top priority for it is the most important family tradition regardless of religion.

Not only that, it also serves as a blessing from above (God) if both of you will have a legal union.


The man must be able to buy you a lot (or a land) to prove to the family of his woman that he can be a good provider in the context of marriage.

Not just having the qualities of a family man or a husband material.

On that note, a good provider is the epitome of manliness.

If the man is not capable of providing for the family, it is better to live single.

Cause a marriage without sustainability will not survive.


For obvious reason, married life means you are ready enough to create a family of your own at your own house as husband and wife.

In my own perspective, size doesn’t really matter. As long as there’s enough space to start a family of your own, that won’t be an issue.

And lastly,

The most obvious one is of course, a house.

Something we could proudly say that we owned it.

C’mon guys, don’t you think that we have the right to manage our own house the way we want it to be?

Please pardon me for I have to separate the lot from a house.

‘Cause sadly,

Not everyone can easily build you a house compare to buying you a lot.

In most cases,

Men offered you a lot for thinking that they can magically build a house with you in an instant.

Not even realizing that building a house takes time which needs to be taxed and insured (not mandatory but still essential) as well.


It can be taken away from you and your new family at any moment.

If you have acquired these 3 significant factors, I guess everything else will follow.

What do you think, Ladies?

Anyway, what for you are the things that will make you change your mind in order to settle down?

Please leave a comment below and share it with us your kind of point of view with regards to marriage.

Thank you for patiently reading my lengthy post, RT Peeps. God bless!

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Dear Whiner, this is for you!

I am writing this down to know if you are aware of yourself.

Was it a bit too much to ask for your help or are you gonna be like that who never stops complaining?

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Was it really hard for you to do other little stuff?

Every time I only ask a small favor, what I often get is a complain when in fact, I did everything I could just so I won’t be hearing any complain from you.

Whenever I confront you about your sort of laziness and constant complain, you always brushed off my confrontation for thinking that you’re always right and your way of reasoning is always valid.

Just so you know, I had been doing everything in hopes that your mouth will stop babbling. But at the end of the day, once a whiner, always and will be a whiner.

Well, good luck on that. I may be hot-tempered at times, but never did I let myself become a headache to people for being too complaining.

Yes, oftentimes, I am very emotional when it comes to my loved ones for they are my achilles’ heel. But let me point out that I only ask a favor for only a few things and never demand you for everything.

I am hoping that one day, you’ll soon wake up and realize that…

At some point in life, I was right.

Thank you for reading my lengthy post, RT Peeps! Sorry for expressing my anger here. It just feel toxic to keep it to yourself and act like as if you are numb.

How about you, Fellas? Will you remain silent whenever you encounter someone who habitually complain? How do you approach him/her? Is it directly or you drop signs that what he /she is doing was completely wrong.

Please leave a comment and let’s pray together that this kind of behavior will soon end. 🙏

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