Learn To Control Your Temper Especially To The Elders

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Not so long ago, my parent who was nearly 60 got pissed off to me.

My parent who was known to have a bucket of patience suddenly burst into anger.

Well, I clearly understand where that mood came from.

One afternoon, I was asked to come upstairs to get my own food, but failed to do it out of busyness.

Of course, I got surprised when she scolded me.

So, I took some time off to tone down my emotion before I leave my work.

But not before long, the food was already at my place.

You see,

Both of my parents are already close enough to be a senior.

That is why,

It is no wonder that their level of patience suddenly became too little.

But, that doesn’t mean that they don’t love me enough.

Now that I am already a grown up woman, I have come to my senses that it is now my turn to understand them deeply with no reservation.

As much as possible, I try to avoid arguments every now and then…

Despite the fact that I was being right.

At some point in my life, I have come to realize that not all battles are worth fighting for.

‘Cause oftentimes,

It is not about being right, but rather about being kind.

You may have won in the argument, but you have lost the respect in them.

So rather than consuming all my energy to be well understood,

It is better to have an ear towards them 24/7.

You see, life is too short to entertain the ugly side of each person.

So, instead of feeding your mind with negative thoughts,

Why not focus on beautiful things that ever happened in your life?

I bet, that will be hard to count!

So…

If ever there has been a misunderstanding between you and your family or someone who’s older than you, learn to listen towards them.

Sometimes, getting angry means that they care way too much to you.

Too much that it now hurts you.

But here’s what you need to remember.

Someday, you’ll also get old; you’ll get weak; and you’ll feel helpless.

Words are deadly.

Please do remember that!

So, let’s try to control our temper whenever possible.

‘Cause I strongly believe that…

Whatever hurtful words that comes out of your mouth cannot be taken back.

How about you? When was the last time that your level of patience was put into test?

And what are the strategies that you have done in order to deepen your level of patience and understanding?

Please comment below!

Gracias!


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You Matter

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Whatever you may be doing right now,

It is better to think about your health first over anything else.

With all the obligations you carry in your daily life,

It’s kinda impossible to take a leave and look for a way to escape.

But if you don’t do it now,

Then how would you want to see yourself in the future?

Your life is precious!

Do something that you future self will be thankful for.


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Why Everyone Needs To Treat With Love, Kindness and Understanding?

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Be it Male, Female or LQBTQ+,

I guess,

This is one of the most talk about topics worldwide.

Though,

LGBTQ+ is getting a lot more attention every single day,

It isn’t fully accepted by our society yet.

I know for a fact that everything gets even more complicated and confusing,

But let us not forget to accept and appreciate our differences.

After all,

We are just equal in the image and likeness of the Lord.

Instead of pointing out our differences and calling it awful,

Why not just support and appreciate one another?

Let me quote to you one of biblical verses that has something to do with our topic for today.

30 “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’[a] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[b] There is no commandment greater than these.” 

Mark 12:30-31 (NIV)

All of us has a unique purpose in life and we cannot expect them to behave, react or even think the way we do.

Others are no different from us ’cause everyone gets hungry,

We breathe the same air, we live in one planet, and God would be happier if we will walk through life as one.

No discrimation but only love and respect for one another.

I hope that through this sharing, we will be able to see diversity in a different light.

More accepting and more humane.


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